Jadi Seorang Ayah Is ...

 Being a dad is tough .. tapi, apa2 pun, you got to toughen it out. That is what I learned today. Hope I can apply it. It was the first of school for da kids. Penat oo .... 

buat2 cerita

Prep Utk Sekolah Anak2

 20/3/23 tarikh yg menarik ... semua anak2 den akan ada dalam sistem persekolahan Malaysia. Farah masuk form 1 PPKI, H masuk tahun 1, dan Zara mulakan her final 2 years of secondary education.

I want to do better for them, InsyaAllah. They deserve better. :D

Okay, kiddos, here's to a new school year :D

sebelum potong rambut ... H pikir2 dulu

Little Signals Jadi One Big Signal

 Life sends little reminders when you make little mistakes, and really gives you a big one when you ignore the little signals. *Sigh* it happened, a perfect storm in a way, today. A potential loss of a month's pay, a revelation of the boss, and how kalut costs you dearly. 

I needed this lesson, but boy it sucks. Again, Andrew Matthews, you are proven right again. The first sentence of this blog post is based on his words.

one of his videos

Jangan Takut Dengan Evolution

 Things change, evolve ... so evolving is okay ... I am evolving, I think wisdom has appeared ... anger is turning into cranky ... hahaha ....

smiling sorang2 in a SBX

S*** Happens But Amor Fati

 Stuff happens, tapi cara kita menerima, dan bertindak terhadapnya adalah hasil yang utama. Secara ringkas, apa yang anda pelajari dari perkara ini?, dan bagaimana anda meneruskan hidup anda selepas ini.

rupa pagi ;)

Layanzzzz

 Sometimes .... sometimes ... layanzzzz je ...

for real

Sleep Is ...

 At the mid-century mark, now you see how important how sleep is ... you want to dream when you sleep, because that means you are in the deepest sleep ;)

still gemuk me

Buat Cukup2

 Tadi petang, boss den kata apa2 mesti buat cukup2, no halfway done. Fokus n buat betul2. Ya ya, boss. 

Aduss, lesson learnt. Tq boss.

post haircut n shave n urut kepala

Eff and Feaking Eff

 You forget, you repeat the same mistake. Duhhh .... remember Einstein definition of insanity la ...

setia

Fail to Plan is Planning To Fail

 Satu perkara yang saya sangat2 bersyukur ialah pada umur yg mahu setengah abad, am still learning new things. And, one of the best lessons, is the title of this blog post. Failing to Plan, is planning to fail.

It is simple.

1. What is the outcome?

2. What are the processes to ensure the outcome?

3. Process in detail? -planning-

4. Execute the plan, according to the schedule.

No wonder James Clear kata it is all about the systems.

my kids makan bfast today

All You Need Is To Move

 Nasihat James Clear 

"Before you throw more time at the problem, throw more focused action at the problem. You don’t need more time, you need fewer distractions."

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"Patience only works if you do.

Doing the work + patience = results.

Planning to work + patience = you're just waiting."

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"Momentum goes both ways.

Don’t move, feel sluggish. Start moving, feel like moving a little more.

Don't talk, feel timid. Start chatting, conversation gets a little easier.

Don't ship, feel stuck. Start creating, ideas begin to flow."

All you need is just a little patience

Buat Je Part 3

 Selagi ada tindakan, ada gerakan ... gerakan ke arah matlamat anda. Sikit2, massive2 ... janji ada tindakan. Buat je ... hero saya adalah contoh saya terbaik dalam benda ini,

gambar2 dif terhormat di dinding kedai rambut

Buat Je Part 2

 Kadang2 bila kita buat je, tanpa byk berfikir .. solusinya muncul. Itu yg den belajar hari ini. I am not too old to learn. This must be what wisdom feels like.

tgk H makan roti canai is fascinating

Farah's Graduation Day 2023

 Hari ini hari graduasi Farah di sekolah beliau. Beliau istimewa, and am so proud of her. 

Take Care of Sleep

 I learnt a lesson today, again ... jaga tidur anda. You are not a young stud anymore. 

tgk ni

Bila Dah Buat, Baru Percaya

 Kadang2, kita perlu buat dahulu, baru percaya ia menjadi. Kalau bayang2, fikir2 ... without action, you don't know whether it works or not. Learn/feedback from the doing, not the thinking I guess , is what I am saying.

Buat dulu!

Signal Kecik2

 Dalam menjalani kehidupan, kadangkala, bila kita fikir tentang nak buat sesuatu, life akan hantar signal kecik2 untuk mengiyakan atau menidakkan keputusan itu. 

Dan, hari ini, life sent me one of these little signals. Just a reminder for me to stick with the plan for the rest of my life.

lampu kanan tu works rupa2nya 

Redha With Lost

 Pagi tadi aku tulis ...

"We cannot change the past, but we can start today to make a better tomorrow " -limpbizkit-

Tadi, ada berita tentang kejayaan perlantikan seorang pelajar ex-Jasin sebagai Pengarah Hospital made me angry about the past again. It awoken one of the more painful episodes of my school years and the rage returned. The rage of the scars of the wounds that have healed.

Life is not fair. I get it. And this episode reinforced that statement, way back in 1990.

And LP latest single 'Lost', released with new Meteora 20 year anniversary box set said it all ... 

Lost by LP

Just a scar somewhere down inside of me

Something I can not repair

Even though it will always be

I pretend it isn't there (This is how I feel)

I'm trapped in yesterday (Just a memory)

Where the pain is all I know (This is all I know)

I'm lost in these memories

Living behind my own illusion

Lost all my dignity

Living inside my own confusion

But I'm tired, I will always be afraid

Of the damage I've received

Broken promises they made

And how blindly I believed (This is all I know)

I will never break away (Can't break free)

'Cause when I'm alone

I'm lost in these memories

Living behind my own illusion

Lost all my dignity

Living inside my own confusion

*sigh*

Pada Yang Muda

 Pada yang muda

... tidur anda berharga

... jaga diri anda sebelum menjaga masyarakat ...

... sebelum beli kenderaan, tanya tentang kos penjagaan (maintenance)

... hidup semasa perkahwinan anda adalah lebih penting dari majlis perkahwinan anda 

Nasihat Den Kepada Yang Muda

Yg Dah Sedar

Ada Sebab Ia Adalah Klasik

 Kita selalu mencari benda2 yang terbaru, untuk berjaya/maju ke hadapan. Tetapi, kadangkala, ada barang2 klasik masih menjadi bisanya. Secara ringkas, it works and still makes sense. 

Malique is for real y' all