Ke Sana, Ke Sini ... Dalam Hati

 Kita tahu apa yang perlu buat. Saya tahu apa yang saya perlu buat. Tetapi, banyak kali, FOMO (fear of missing out) mengganggu keputusan.

KePUTUSan, bermaksud kata putus, tiada pandang/toleh belakang.

Sometimes, Just Do It, makes so much sense!

Hold on For Just One More Day ....

Yang Paling Berharga Adalah Tidur

 Sekali lagi aku diingatkan tentang pentingya tidur. Kurang tidur, kurang fungsi 100% ... 

Aduhai, amanah aku masih ada lagi kekurangan aku melakukannya. I must do better.

muka sembab .. you reap what you sow ...

Beyond infinite affections

Things are going alright. But, still have to be wary and watch out.

Grateful for everything and looking forward to more.

Change is Doing

Do you want to change? Yes, to change, you must DO it. Wishing, berharap, tidak akan merubah apa2 ...

Sorang sahabat berkata, jangan menyalahkan takdir atas apa yang berlaku. Kita harus redha and learn from it, kerana ia telah berlaku, and nothing will change it. That shook me like a thunderbolt.

Present and future is all we have ...

Power of Focus, Personal Version

I wrote this post for my online biz English blog on the power of focus, and can't help but think it can be applied for other aspects of life as well.

My main mistake, I admit, was spreading myself too thin and multi-tasking too much. Yep, multi-tasking too much. So, for the past few months, I have been experimenting with focus on smaller to-do list at work .. but working deep on them. The result? no surprise, I got more work done! It was quite simple ..

1. What is the preferred end result?
2. What is the plan to get there?
3. Execute the plan
4. Adjust the plan, depending on feedback.

There it is. And it works ...  I am planning to implement it in my online businesses to improve my online business. And, in my personal life as well.

And like I wrote in my BM business blog here, most of the time, we have already whatever to begin the change ....

Later

Man In The Mirror

For the past few weeks, I have to admit that the dark moods that I had during my 20s are making a comeback. They don't stay long, but long enough to inflame the doubts in the mind. Doubts that come from the 'shoulda, woulda, couldas' ... it makes me incapable to think clearly and positively. The film of the past would furiously be playing in full HD and surround sound. And the background voice would repeating the same phrase over and over again ..."Tu la kau ... tu la kau ... orang lain dah berjaya.. kau camtu gak ..."

Especially, in the past month, I got into the habit of comparing my career to my childhood friends, school mates .. and most of the time, it was disheartening. Just looking at the potential I had in my 20s and how I threw it all away ... because I was moping, sulking about my Jasin and college years ...

then I saw the pattern ... that I spent my 30s sulking about my 20s ... and that is why I think my biz pursuit in my 30s did not go well.. I was busy chasing so many things that I lost focus ... now in my early 40s, I will not repeat the same behavior again.

Syukur, writing this post has helped me to clarify my muddled thoughts a bit ... in a sense, I am still a a work in process ... recovering and going to a better place ... I have to keep the faith that what I am doing right now will lead me to success for me and my family.

One thing for sure ... if you want to change for better, you have to ask the man in the mirror to change .. the man in the mirror knows you better .....